Friday, December 19, 2014

December Read



Title: Fully Present: The Science, Art, and Practice of Mindfulness
Author: Smalley, Susan L.
Call Number: 616.89142 S635F 2010
Subjects: Mindfulness-based cognitive; Meditation
Number of Pages: 260
ISBN: 9780738213248
Book Description (from amazon.com):
            Mindfulness—the art of paying attention with an open and curious mind to present-moment experiences—has attracted ever-growing interest and tens of thousands of practitioners, who have come to the discipline from both within and outside the Buddhist tradition. In Fully Present, leading mindfulness researchers and educators Dr. Sue Smalley and Diana Winston provide an all-in-one guide for anyone interested in bringing mindfulness to daily life as a means of enhancing well-being. Fully Present provides both a scientific explanation for how mindfulness positively and powerfully affects the brain and the body as well as practical guidance to develop both a practice and mindfulness in daily living, not only through meditation but also during daily experiences, such as waiting in line at the supermarket, exercising, or facing difficult news.
My Read:
            This phrase from page 42 in the book really amazes me. It states: Breath as a window on the mind. Here we have “breath,” “window,” and “mind.” At the beginning of chapter five there is this quote from Publilius Syrus (Roman author, first century BCE): “The pain of the mind is worse than the pain of the body. Personally I believe that our mind controls almost everything about the self; we are what the mind thinks. Sleepless nights, when there are no obvious physical issues, are caused by the overworking racing mind.
            “Breath is a good barometer for your state of mind.”-page 47. When I tried the mindfulness practices listen in the book I fully agree with the authors that it’s simple but it’s not easy. The first few tries, my breathing became difficult; I couldn’t breathe in enough air and the blowing out of air became sluggish and ragged. I was feeling like a drowning person struggling for air. The shoulders felt so tense and tight that I was afraid they would cramp and get into bouts of spasms. The mind was where else, just not with me. The more I tried the more tense my body became. It’s definitely not easy!
            My tries is proof of the saying that “The mind-body relationship is bidirectional-the mind can influence the body, and the body can influence the mind.”
            The following are notes I took from reading this book:
“You are not the emotion.” Instead of saying “I am angry” thinking “I have anger.”-page 116
“Do I feel like it is my emotion or the emotion?” “Hold yourself with kindness.”-page 119
“It appears that as the brain shifts from less to more coherent, we may shift from sad to happy.”-page 132
“We suggest here that mindfulness enhances attachment not only to your own self and to others but to the whole universe and your place in it.”-page 131
“How do we disidentify? One main tool for disidentifying in the midst of difficult thinking is to label your thoughts just as you label your emotions.”-page 186
“Aha. I am in the midst of aversion, it’s not personal to me, it’s just a passing mental state.”-page 205
“It’s through obstacles that we are stretched and learn something new about ourselves: our fortitude, courage, persistence, and ingenuity.”-page 207
“Most of our thoughts are about things we regret from the past or things we are worried about in the future.”-page 13
            From reading this book I got three things together. They are: Mindfulness, Wisdom, and Compassion.
            The following saying from the book is powerful and let me share here:
Practice changes the brain.-page 7

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

November Read/Sherri



Title: If You Ask Me (And of Course You Won’t)
Author: White, Betty
Call Number: B W582W 2011
Subjects: Television actors and actresses
Number of Pages: 258
ISBN: 9780399157530
Book Review:
            “If you ask me (And of course you won’t),” written by Betty White is delightful, as she voices her opinions of her life experiences. She seems to find inspiration all around her. She speaks of “Golden Girls” and “Hotin Cleveland” with passion for each of her co-stars as if they were family.
            Betty is an animal activist in her spar time. The United States Department of Agriculture made her an honoring Forest Ranger which fulfilled her childhood dream. She felt a strong need to preserve our land and the animals that depend on their habitats surviving.
            My favorite part was when she was given the honor to visit Koko the famous gorilla. Koko learned to speak through the use of sign language. Koko and Betty fell in love with each other from the beginning and Koko remembered her each time they visited. Betty White seemed to be admired by both her human and animal friend.

Monday, December 1, 2014

November Read/2



Title: Commit To Win: How To Harness the Four Elements of Commitment to Reach Your Goals
Author: Reeder, Heidi, PhD
Call Number: 158.1 R327C 2014
Subjects: Commitment (psychology); Goal (psychology); Motivation (psychology)
Number of Pages: 243
ISBN:
9781594631337
Book Description from amazon.com:
            What do you need besides motivation and willpower?

In Commit to Win, Heidi Reeder, PhD, unpacks over forty years of research by psychologists and economists to show that the key to reaching any goal, whether it’s to hit the gym more often or to finally quit that dead-end job, isn’t motivation, willpower, or determination. It’s commitment. Busting the myths most of us believe about commitment, Reeder shows that it all comes down to four variables:
  • Treasures: the benefits we get from working toward a goal,
  • Troubles: the difficulties we have to deal with,
  • Contributions: the time, money, and effort we invest, and
  • Choices: the number of good alternatives we have.
Together, these variables make up a formula that not only measures how committed we are, but also shows which factors we can change to get our commitment level in sync with what we want to do. Packed with practical examples and action plans for a variety of situations, Commit to Win will allow readers to stop wishing for things to be different and instead make practical changes that will naturally empower them to reach their goals. It will appeal to readers of Succeed and The Willpower Instinct.
from quotediary
My Read:
            Before I turned the pages, I looked up at the dictionary to see what commitment means. It is explained as followed: the experience of being psychologically attached to something and intending to stay with it.

            Helpful tips from the book:
-There are two sides of commitment: dedication àWant to; constraintàHave to-page 7
-Commitment is best understood as a matter of degree-page 5
-Commitment is actually the outcome of everyday mental decisions and actions-page 16
-Commitment is not about others; it’s about you-page 24
-The real benefit of determining what deserves your commitment is a life of greater purpose and meaning-page 25
-Four elements of commitment in this book are: treasures (rewarding and fulfilling), troubles (what’s in the way), contributions, and choices
-Formula of how to measure commitment: treasures-troubles + contributions-choices=> level of commitment
-One small thing you can do at the start of the day or the beginning of the project is get into an optimistic frame of mind. A positive baseline mood gives you a bit of a buffer against the inevitable hardships, and a greater appreciation for the things you treasure-page 98
-There is a difference between facts and our interpretation of the facts-page 99
-If you want others to commit, begin by asking for small contributions-page 127
-We value things more when we have a hand in their creation-page 131

            At the beginning of reading this book I found out that this is not a book for me; I love what I do. The book has been sitting on the couch for days until I “found” it again. This time my bias was gone and I was able to finish the book in no time.
 “Commitment is innate and instinctual. You already have the innate tools to experience high levels of commitment in the key area of your life.”-page 7 Those words from the book truly reflect what I have experienced in my life though I didn’t have the wisdom to put them into well-described words. No one taught me or asked me to work hard at the areas I found intriguing and inspiring; commitment just came very naturally to me.
            “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.’-quoted from Confucius
            Did you find your playground? Check out the quote you will know the answer.